Bullying in Schools

Jodee Blanco recently did a presentation of “It’s Not Just Joking Around” on Tuesday, November 16th, at Decorah High School Auditorium.  She spoke about bullying in schools and ways to keep it from happening. On her website she states, "No one should have to endure being teased, bullied, or abused. Cruelty violates a person’s sense of self and others. If you or someone you know—perhaps your son, daughter, student, or a friend—is being bullied at school, you can help. Listen to them. Let them know they are not alone in their struggle. Be compassionate, supportive, and strong."  In the end, I found that it really all came down to good parenting.  A good parent should let their kids know that they are there for them.

I was not a big fan of her teaching style.  I understand that she went through some VERY rough times in high school, but it seemed like she was too focused on herself at times.  She was very intense and made me fell uncomfortable at times.  On the other hand, she did a very good job of getting her point across. 

She believes that educators can play a large role in helping out with the problem.  She doesn't want teachers to just "sweep it under the rug" when it happens.  Instead they need to befriend both the victim and the bullier.  She says that bullying instances should be dealt with immediately and firmly.  It is important to connect with parents as well.  This may be difficult but "stay calm" even if the parents are not.  She has suggestions for parents, educators, and victims on her website.

Here is her website:

http://www.jodeeblanco.com/